Brad said:
so like if I'm walking down the street and a piano falls on my head I am not a victim but a whiner 'cuz I chose to walk where some inept movers were working that day and I'm a whiner not a victim 'cuz I'm responsible for not looking up and seeing the piano plummet ... right, there are no victims ... just unbalanced pianos
oh, silly kitty, the piano didn't fall on your head BECAUSE you are a whiner. It fell on you because you're in a cartoon.
*your belief system will either put you in harms way or keep you from it. If you tell yourself that you're accident prone & bad things always happen to you, then you'd be more drawn to the moment where a piano could fall on you, thus reinforcing your belief system. Life conspires to give you more of what you're already in.
Don't take my word for this, prove it to yourself. But, you can't lie to yourself, what you honestly feel,think,believe is what will really show up in your life. You can change that consciously, it just takes effort and time....