I have had this conversation many times over the years with friends and family. As savagegoose says, if you are the giver you should not expect anything from any prize. That said however, it is down to the winner and their relationship with you that is important. Winning a large amount of money does unfortunately change people and in some cases greed overwhelmes everything. They change their attitude towards you, regardless of whether you have been there for them through thick and thin and always would be, money has a very mysterious affect on some people.
If you did win the big one, would you tell anyone?
If you did tell, you would potentially be everybody's best friend and they would expect a free ride for as long as the money lasted, is that true family or friends?
There again, if you decided not to tell anyone what would you do without bringing attention to yourself?
Most people would upgrade their home, buy a car or two and all of a sudden take a few more than the one annual holiday.
I don't mean to appear to be negative on this but people who inherit or win a great deal of money do change in the majority, unfortunately this is a fact of life. I have had first hand experience of this more than once.
I would like to think that my family and friends are exactly that, my family and friends, and would hope that they would be pleased for me, and I personally would help them if needed without being critised or judged.
Sorry for being cynical.
Edit: This thread could open up a whole can of worms!
Regards,
PAB
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12:45, restate my assumptions.
Mathematics is the language of nature.
Everything around us can be represented and understood through numbers.
If you graph the numbers of any system, patterns emerge. Therefore, there are patterns everywhere in nature.